Monday, 1 September, 2025

Le Weekend

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Le Weekend

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Wandering idly along the gravel paths around the Castle with Downton author Julian Fellowes, I asked him why he thought the lines delivered by Maggie Smith were always such a success. He replied it was because of how she just “threw them away” and that she had an amazing touch in regards to how her various intonations would play out in any particular scene. Many of us happily replay her lines – even though in actuality there are not many of them yet they all strike a chord.

These lines which have given us such entertainment are just words: black letters shaping a word, forming a phrase on a piece of paper. Julian also told me that he was always very specific in his stage directions as to exactly how the actors should be placed at any particular moment and that he even envisaged exactly which moments would require music to be part of the scene. 

He was not always here at Highclere ‘on set’ but used to drop in, especially during the filming of the TV series’ and, if Maggie were here, would pop in to see her in the Morning Room. This was the room that was set aside for her so she could have a little fire and a cup of tea without going too far off set. It lies next door to my study and faces south so that it is nice and light. 

There are many favourite Dowager Lady Grantham lines but one in particular has practically entered the English language, particularly amongst all the team here, and that is “What is a weekend?” In fact, Sally in the gift shop has even gone so far as to have it printed on a t-shirt underneath a picture of the castle. I have rewatched the scene in which Maggie says this line several times and it still makes me laugh. There are many ways in which any of us could say those few words but she owns them with such a light touch along with a daunting, puzzled glance down the Dining Room table.

Weekends spent researching for many of my books have always begun with the brown stack of boxes in the archive room. These contain the visitor books for the castle which are invaluable when I am trying to get a flavour of who was here, sitting round the Dining Room table, going for a walk in the gardens and who was asked to visit with whom. During Victorian times and the early 20th century, guests tended to arrive on a Saturday and either leave on a Monday or stay for a week or more. Of course, travel then was slower and more tiring until the arrival of the trains made it easier but even so, life seemed to move at a more leisurely pace. 

In so many cases the idea of working Monday to Friday was not present on any level whether here or in any other house, irrespective of size.  For example, the staff downstairs could not have a weekend off – they were working then although all had some time off each week along with a proper letter of employment. This term was apparently first used in 1879 until more formal employment laws gradually came into being in the 1920’s and 1930’s.

Matthew Crawley in Downton Abbey worked as a solicitor and was quite happy and fulfilled working what we would call now a normal week ie. Monday – Friday. This was the wonderful divide between the new Crawley relatives and the Grantham family all brought to a head by the four words thrown away by Dame Maggie Smith – “What is a weekend”. Poor Mathew – thoroughly put in his place!

For those watching the filming from Team Highclere, there was equally little time off, as when Downton were not filming, we were open for visitors. Being in the hospitality heritage business, we work hard most weekends. After all, weekends are the best time for days out for most people.

Everyone misses Dame Maggie and her character in Downton – as ever she was prescient leaving us all in the second film before finally bowing out in real life as well. Appropriately, and as usual, the next Downton film launches over a weekend so, despite her concerns, we will look forward to it. 

Before that though, this coming weekend we will be hosting as many people as possible for our “Weekend to Remember”, raising money for all the charities who will be here with us. 

What a weekend it will be, I hope, to celebrate the anniversary of the end of WWII, to join in the music and dancing of that era, but also to reflect on the courage of those who serve and to say thank you for their resilience. Some of them will be telling their stories so please come and hear theirs. 

PS - I thought I would like to end our weekend doing an enormous conga line as happened in 1945 - will you join us?!

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18 Comments

PROFA MARIA AUGUSTA PINHEIRO
September 01, 2025 at 01:12 pm

Good morning dear Lady,

The widowed countess spoke
the truth that few have the courage
to say ...or think...

Vila Alemã
Rio Claro-SP
BRAZIL.

Jackie Shubert
September 01, 2025 at 01:45 pm

I would love to join you all in the conga but its too far for me.I will be there in spirit. Have a marvellous time and I look forward to the release of your book..

Richard Waddell
September 01, 2025 at 01:46 pm

What a wonderful story. I, too, recall with great pleasure Dowager Lady Grantham's simple question "What is a weekend?". I laughed and laughed and it has become a regular line in our household, along with lots of laughter.

Richard Waddell

Ray Jackson
September 01, 2025 at 01:52 pm

Always nice to read stories about Maggie Smith, truly a special lady and actress.

Paula Barin
September 01, 2025 at 01:53 pm

I love that line in Downton Abbey and often use it now that I’m retired. What is a weekend?😂 Maggie Smith will be missed in the new movie.  A character unparalleled. 
I am looking forward to the movie and expect it to be a several tissue event. I am also looking forward to your new book, to say I am a bit obsessed with Highclere and Downton Abbey is an understatement. I have most all of your other books and love them.
Paula from Canada.

Robi Bursten
September 01, 2025 at 02:04 pm

The highlight of my last trip to the UK was visiting Highclere Castle where I bought the “What is a Weekend” tshirt.  I wear is proudly and get many questions but mostly it brings back the wonderful memories of touring your home and the wonderful te.

Joanne Jones
September 01, 2025 at 02:08 pm

Great meeting and talking with you about the many WWII sacrifices as we met by the aviator’s memorial as a Viking guest.
Thanks for keeping these important memories alive amid the happy celebrations you graciously provide.

Smiles de Ferry Foster
September 01, 2025 at 02:32 pm

Yes!

Patricia Smyly
September 01, 2025 at 07:34 pm

What can I say but"yes"! Please consider my years and don't go too fast!

Karen Farris
September 01, 2025 at 02:50 pm

Lovely the pictures of Le weekend and did you and lord Carnarvon have a wonderful weekend and lam so looking forward to seeing Downton Abbey final film and lovely highcelere castle

Carla Rigden
September 01, 2025 at 02:55 pm

Fabulous story as always. I so look forward to Mondays. Indeed, what is a weekend, always makes me chuckle! I’m sure many will agree, Dame Maggie is a loss to us all.
Have a great commemorative weekend , I will definitely be there in spirit. I’m sure it will be very successful with lots of donations too.

Pauline Godwin
September 01, 2025 at 03:08 pm

With you all in spirit enjoy the conga !!

Patricia Luck
September 01, 2025 at 03:49 pm

I have the "What's a Weekend" t-shirt, also. Bought it on a tour sponsored by Viking River Cruises. Have very mixed emotions about the upcoming film, it will
be very hard to see things come to an end! Will have many tissues with me!!

Pauline Taylor
September 01, 2025 at 03:55 pm

My grandmother's cousin spent many weekends at Highclere as he was the editor of the Pall Mall Gazette and was invited to spend weekends with Lord Carnarvon and leading politicians. I am still hoping that one day you may find his name, Frederick greenwood, in the visitors book as that would be very exciting for me He, and his brother were both excellent writers and I am sure he would find your regular articles for us very entertaining as do I. Thank you very much.e.

Cele Curtis
September 01, 2025 at 04:11 pm

Unfortunately we cannot join you for your upcoming weekend salutes and festivities. We do however, look forward to visiting Highclere again - perhaps next year. In the meantime, I look forward to the photos of the gathering this weekend.

Sibyl - from Reno, Nevada USA
September 01, 2025 at 04:35 pm

I purchased one of the "What's a Weekend?" t-shirts when I visited your beautiful castle two years ago. It makes me smile when I wear it and think fondly of Maggie Smith.

Valarie LaBore
September 01, 2025 at 04:51 pm

Now here's something new to me as an American: what are employment laws, and why was an employment letter needed?
Val from California who is off to a looooong weekend in the UK.

Linda Walton
September 01, 2025 at 05:20 pm

I stumbled on Downton Abbey years ago at the recommendation of a friend. One of the best recommendations ever. Maggie Smith had an exceptional ability to make herself endeared with her quick wit and acting skill.  I’ll miss her in the 2nd movie. But…she left her imprint & I suspect Julian Fellowes will find a way to keep her memory alive. It is a bucket list hope of mine to travel across the big pond to visit Highclere; but, at my age it may not happen. I’m grateful I have been able to visit virtually through Downton Abby and through your weekly posts. For that I am truly thankful!

Martha Glass
September 01, 2025 at 05:38 pm

Lady Carnarvon,
Here at Glenaire, our retirement community, we often ask others that question! Activities  are always available, except perhaps slowing down on Sundays, as a Presbyterian place! We will always miss the lovely Dame Maggie. You are fortunate to have had James Fellowes as a friend.
Martha G

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