Arriving at the castle this weekend, the first group of people you might have bumped into were the Morris Dancers. Remarkably British, they wear bells on their legs and wave sticks around to music, following a rhythmic pattern of dance. Traditionally, a key part of rural celebrations, they joined us for our “Magic of the Movies” weekend. They are colourful and fun, quintessentially part of our countryside and provided an instant welcome to our guests, many of whom arrived in Downton Abbey themed costumes to add to the atmosphere.
The south lawns became the home of the dance and music marquee, shared in turn by the Alex Mendham Band and The Gatsby’s. They both just make your toes tap and reminded us all of the pleasure of sitting listening to music. The Gatsby Girls even took time to teach some of to do some of the 1920’s dances.
For those who felt inclined, badminton and croquet beckoned on the east lawns whilst Luis’s Gin Cocktail Bar mixed excellent refreshing drinks from lunch time onwards.
Of course, the castle tours were the main draw and so we “dressed” the rooms appropriately with various vintage costumes in “Downton Abbey Style” and included lady Almina’s coronation robe from the Robing Room for fun.
The next layer of entertainment required pen and paper. Sally from the gift shop was my writing partner and a little script was the result. Charlotte in the office asked if she could see it. I think she wondered if it existed or was any good at all. Plucking up my courage I asked the Highclere team to join in a rehearsal before we agreed the final version of the script for the weekend’s willing participants. In fact, our in-house rehearsal was a glorious team building exercise and of course revealed some errors which I had time to correct before the weekend.
Movies are magical as they transport us all into other lives and places without us having to leave our seats. The costumes and props, music and words create an imaginative narrative and world in which to escape or emotionally experience. It is a chance to be immersed, to be lost in thought and stories. Two hours in a cinema and then we leave to return to our everyday real world.
Highclere is both a real and a fictional home, playing a silent role throughout the tv series and in the film. It is aspirational but also represents aspirational values in terms of staying quietly there, remaining imperturbable whatever life throws, weathering the weather, the storms and winds.
Some of those who have lived at Highclere in the past have had their own forays into films and Hollywood. The 6th Earl divorced his wife Catherine having been beguiled by the excitement of Tanis Guinness and was drawn into Hollywood: there are a series of letters referencing the great stars of the time, from Douglas Fairbanks to Tallulah Bankhead. Ultimately, Tanis rejected the 6th Earl and she married a film producer. The 6th Earl went on to court many other beautiful women from the world of stage and screen before eventually marrying a celebrity as his second wife: the dancer and actress Tilly Losch. She tried her luck in with Hollywood but sadly never broke into a major part and that marriage too ended in divorce.
As far as Highclere’s own film making was concerned, it had its ups and downs. Our visitors were wonderful and great sport but the centre of attention was probably Alfie the Labrador, and for all the wrong reasons, when he ate part of the afternoon tea that was the central prop in our film script. As the old adage goes – never act with children or animals!
Lovely costumes! We are planning to visit on 9/28 with a Viking tour group. Looking forward to seeing Highclere and your gardens!
Thank you!
Lady Carnarvon let’s dance and lovely the pictures and lovely to visit highcelere castle did you lord Carnarvon have a nice weekend
Wonderful thank you!
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
Thank you very much for that highly entertaining blog, wish I could have been there – I’d have laughed my socks off at Alfie’s antics!
Have a wonderful week, love you all
Caroline
Lady Carnarvon. Thank you for a delightful day at Highcleary Castle. It was our first time visiting and the event that was put together was amazing. Thank you!
thank you – there was so much laughter and happiness which really makes our roles feel worthwhile! Charlotte here in our office was team leader leader so it is tribute to her.
We are all smiles and sadness here, wishing we could have been there again but so glad for the sunshine and fun for everyone. Louis and Charlotte and Mctaggart look amazing! See you in 2022!
The weather was great – luckily
Good morning from Fort Worth, Texas.
Absolutely delightful. Movies and all aspects of theater have transported and educated me since I was a young child. How I wish I could have been there for these festivities. The dancing, costumes, and overall enjoyment of period theater.
I really wish I could have been there. Magical
I wish you could have been too
We are all smiles and sadness here, wishing we could have been there again but so glad for the sunshine and fun for everyone. Louis and Charlotte and Mctaggart look amazing! See you in 2022!
Yet another wonderful day at Highclere and an excellent afternoon tea. A well deserved birthday treat for my mother, who is a huge Downton Abbey fan.
I always secretly hope that Lord Grantham may suddenly appear striding across the lawns, maybe one day Mr Bonnieville!!
Thank you for another lovely memory made.
All good wishes
Michelle Brewster
Thank you !
You recaptured a memory for me from years ago.
Sunday tea was always special and my Mum had carefully laid it all out on the table. We all came in from the garden and our dog had scoffed the lot.
My mothers face was a picture.
He was forgiven as all our dogs down the years have been very spoilt.
Mum passed away recently, your story made me smile at the memory.
Lady Carnarvon,
And so goes another romping day on the grounds with tours of lovely Highclere Castle as the best part! You and your team are simply amazing at the imagination and inspiration you all continue to show. Best wishes to Charlotte in the office for her team leadership! I imagine she enjoyed having the “buck stop at her desk” when it was all over!
Always a fan,
Martha G.
Dear Lady Carnarvon, family and the team.
Thank you so much for an unforgettable day yesterday. We thoroughly enjoyed everything! The entertainment was great and we couldn’t have wished for better weather too!
Radka
( Mum of the young maid from yesterday’s filming!)
Thank you – your daughter was amazing!
How wonderful that Mother Nature cooperated so you and your team could pull off yet another wonderful weekend event! So glad to read all went well (save for Alfie, but guessing that added to the laughter of many as well!) and can imagine how wonderful it must have felt for you to see and hear all the joy and laughter of all who were there. Guessing you all are exhausted today so hoping you and your team are able to sit back, relax and savor the success of the weekend.
Remain well going forward.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
I can’t begin to imagine the amount of work you and your team must have put into the day. It looks as though everyone had a fabulous day! One day I will book another trip, every Monday is a lovely reminder of the wonderful day we had at Highclere last year. Labradors are such foodies, total sneeky thieves but totally impossible to tell off! I think its the expression on their faces, remorse mixed with love and helplessness because the food was just there, waiting to be eaten, all rolled into one. Amazing Alfie.
Jane
So true!
Thank you again dear Lady Carnavon!
I always say how you brighten my Mondays!
We were hoping to be visit Highclere this month but., sadly Covid again has dashed our travel plans.
We are still hopeful as more and more are getting vaccinated that we’ll be able to see Highclere in person soon
Greetings from Joliet, Illinois. We visited Highclere a few years ago and loved it!
I got a kick out of the story of Alfie eating the props, and it reminded me of our golden labrador Penny clearing my parents’ coffee table of party leftovers while they were walking their guests out.
Labradors enjoy their food!
Hello Lady Carnarvon,
That looked like another fun event at Highclere. Nice to see many visitors dressed for the occasion as this adds to the theme of the event. The Gatsby Girls inspire guests to join in where required and many do.
You now have a year to create the HIghclere Morris Troupe. Are you up for the challenge?
“No, but will give it a try.” she says.
Will e-mail photos of the Morris weekend event at Shoreham some years ago. Even the ladies contributed to the festivities.
Something to add next year. A dressage display say near the Jackdaw Castle?
Carry on Highclere.
Soon to be time for some Autumn photos.
Lady Carnarvon, how worderful and so much fun.
Thank you
fondly Jenny
Lady Carnarvon,
thank you for the writing and pictures of this weekend, the 10 of us from Washington State, who were suppose to be there, ( our state shut us down from travel) thought of you all weekend! We are very excited that we will be able to join you next Sept.
thank you for all you do! You are an amazing Lady!
Lori
See you all next year!
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
Oh, what a wonderful weekend for all those who attended. It looked fabulous. Fun was had by all, especially Alfie.
Thanks for an uplifting Monday,
Pam
How lovely! Lady Carnarvon you and your staff have outdone yourself this time! Everyone looked great! I saw the Instagram post also. Such fun! One day I shall get to Highclere, which is my dream. Although I live in Glendale, AZ, I do know a few people in the area. Paul McTaggart looked smashing!
I will be sure to tell him he looked smashing
Lady Carnarvon lovely pictures of let’s dance thank you for email and lovely come to highcelere castle
Lady Carnarvon,
It appeared that a wonderful time was had by all. Have you considered live streaming of special events at Highclere? (Perhaps a fund-raising venture?) I think that many of us would like to participate.
I hope we will have short video to share with you shortly and my major project is “Friends of Highclere” – ….. we have the holding page of the web site and I hope it might be much enjoyed later this autumn when we launch ..
Count me in for Friends of Highclere!! A brilliant idea long-time coming!!
Martha G
Wonderful thank you
MY DEAR LADY CARNARVON,
GOOD EVENING,
IS THE BEST “LET’S DANCE ” , SO SORRY,I AM ONE BRAZILIAN GIRL, COMING IN ENGLAND, IS DIFFICULTIES THIS TIME. BUT IS ABSOLUTELY STUNNING YOUR GARDEN PARTY.WOW, WONDERFUL. CONGRATULATIONS FROM BRAZIL MILADY. CHAMPAGNE!!
FOR ALL. CHEERS.
VILA ALEMÃ
RIO CLARO – SP
BRAZIL
It was with delight that I peeked into your “Magic At The Movies” Highclere style. We have enjoyed the Morris Dancers on trips to England and felt we could hear those bells ringing. My mom was one of the Flappers (not sure where that comes from)in the 20’s and taught me and my best friend to dance The Charleston. It is a wonderful aerobic exercise and should be added to fitness classes. Thanks for sharing Highclere with us each Monday. Always brings joy and Alfie did his part. Am sure all had to laugh!
Alfie did make everyone laugh!
What a wonderful post this week! A fun time and loved the costumes and event that looked like the most fun anyone could have had this year! Always interesting a so well written – we feel we are there once again! Can’t wait to return!
Everyone had fun guests and staff – maybe see you next year?
Sounds like this was great fun! No Lab owner has ever had at least one party when said Lab ate something off the table. I have a coaster that says, “All food must be sent the Lab for testing” & there’s a photo a Labrador dog. Ah, you can laugh at it now, but I bet it was very aggravating!
I love your blog!
Take care!
Donna from Chicago
Alfie actually restrained himself!!
Dear Lady Carnarvon:
Thank you for your entertaining Monday blog. What eye-catching dance and period costumes. Great photographs from the day’s events. Happy the Castle that the sun shines on. Glad to know that everyone had a good time.
Until next week, may you find a quiet moment to relax and look back at how successful Highclere Castle’s teams collective efforts were.
Perpetua Crawford
Today was truly exhausting but I think a good day. I have been working with a small team on a new venture called “Friends of Highclere” – “To boldly go where no stately home has gone before” although not into space, unlike Star Trek!
Dear Lady Carnarvon:
Thank you for your reply.
I look forward to receiving more information on the “Friends of Highclere” when available. Hope Alfie is part of the group.
Perpetua Crawford
Had an amazing time on Saturday. Had my hair done by Vintage Victory Rollers on site. They were very welcoming, put me at ease, were very professional and loved the hair up with the period style. Would definitely recommend them. Enjoyed the rest of the day and felt very much a part of it. Thank you
Thank you for coming to Highclere !
Such a wonderful experience at Highclere on Saturday. Despite the grandeur of the place, it felt so welcoming. Huge thanks to all the team and to the family. The event was incredibly professional yet relaxed with the absolute perfect blend of activities and entertainment. Particular highlights included the tour of the house and getting my hair done, Lady Mary-style by Vintage Victory Rollers. Just loved everything about the day. Great atmosphere on the day, just wish I’d have dressed up – next year!
The Vintage Rollers were so busy but wonderful for them!
Oh that naughty Alfie
Sandie whitefish Montana
Seems that you did it again, Lady Carnarvon — gave your guests a wonderful time at a special event. I would have been amongst them had covid restrictions not intervened. So I made myself content with a a very happy memory of a visit four years ago and a picture of having tea with the photo of the Dowager and Lady Edith in the background. You, the Earl, and your staff certainly know how to “do” gracious hospitality in so many ways. Bless you and thank you for all the joy you give others — your Monday blog starts my week in such a nice way. Best wishes from this avid Anglophile in northern California.
Sharon Clark
Novato, CA
thank you- it was uplifting I think !
Lady Carnarvon,
I love movies and live entertainment.
Sounded like a fun event put on.
Phyllis Simpson, USA
Thank you for the Monday blog. The party looked fantastic! What fun. Loved the costumes and Alfie’s part.
Way to go Alfie… you can’t keep a good dog down!
Wallace Craig
Midland Texas
Dear Lady Canarvon,
What a truly magical time it must have been for everyone in attendance! The costumes, music, performances, cocktails & of course the wonderful Alfie. Thank you for an insight into your amazing weekend. It’s a great way to start my Tuesday in Australia & another week in lockdown. Have a wonderful day.
Kindest regards,
Lynne
I hope you stay safe – for all the infections in the UK, the vaccine keep us all out of hospitals here
Thank you for the wonderful opportunity to see Highclere Castle on Saturday . The day was magical . Well worth the long trip from Scotland . Hope to be back one day .
I once read that people with anxiety often re-watch the same movies or TV shows, because they already know what happens (and therefore don’t have to process any more new information), they know how the film or show will make them feel, and it helps reinforce a sense of order and reliability. Which would explain why so many of us have reached for our Downton box sets in the last year and a half! Thank you again for your Monday musings, they are always appreciated.
Lady Carnarvon, wonderful photographs. With Alfie eating some of the food, I guess it was just too much seeing it there and he just had to go for it. Dogs will be dogs! Cheryl
So true Cheryl
With regrets we missed this most wonderful event..hopefully 2023 will see us at Highclere Castle..
See you next year September 2022
Way to go, Alfie !
Labradors are food-obsessed. One of our Labs once ate an entire chocolate birthday cake — he happily bounded from the back of our estate (wagon), across the back seat, into the front seat, through the packaging and down the hatch, as it were. All in about 30 seconds.
Gotta love dogs _most_ of the time 😉
Really enjoyed visiting Highclere Castle with my two girlfriends on Sunday, we all dressed for the part and I even managed to dance the Charleston ! Don’t think the dancers have anything to worry about that’s for sure. Weather was beautiful as was the surroundings, tour inside the Castle and the grounds . Pimms just hit the spot too. Loved the filming of the extra guest , Lord and Lady C joining in too. Great memory for my 60th Birthday celebrations , Thankyou for your hospitality and yes, the dogs were the scene stealers.
Wonderful day enjoyed by all