
At 4 o’clock in the afternoon it is time for tea. It is a very important part of the day and one that is never missed although there is always a general debate as to whose turn it is to get the tea for those in the office.
Hannah G is most particular about taste and colour so if you are the one in charge of making it – beware. At the flick of a finger, she will replay one of Maggie Smith’s funniest scenes in the film The Best Exotic Hotel Marigold when she explains exactly how to make a cup of tea and we are all keen to ensure we follow her instructions. It is a herb, it needs boiling water and it needs to be allowed to seep.
Tea is the most widely consumed drink around the world after water and rather more welcome and warming on a wintery afternoon at Highclere. Whilst it now has the reputation of being a very English tradition, it began rather nearer to where tea was originally grown in China and around the border of Myanmar before cultivation spread to India and Sri Lanka. Somehow along the way it became very English and now tourists travel across oceans to enjoy afternoon tea (tea with little cakes and scones) at Highclere or at the Ritz in London or at any number of cafes and hotels around the country.
Tea tends to be grown high in the hills where the plants grow more slowly in acidic soils and misty warm climates and it takes at least three years from planting a new shrub to harvesting any leaves. Officially called Camellia sinensis, this evergreen plant is probably the most widely grown Camellia in the world. Tea harvesting is an art and even today is largely done by hand so the bushes are pruned quite low to make it easier to collect the leaves.
Some teas are smoky, some lightly scented or floral… Whatever your preference, apparently 5 billion cups of it are drunk every day around the world which means that nearly 7million tonnes of tea have to be produced each year. Ireland competes with the UK to drink the most “cuppas” per head.
It became widely consumed in the British Isles from the 18th century onwards but remained expensive until the latter part of that period. English drinkers preferred to add sugar and milk to black tea and soon black tea overtook green tea in popularity. A number of entrepreneurs such as Sir Thomas Lipton created successful businesses using marketing to proclaim that he was selling the best goods at the cheapest prices so that by the end of the 19th century he had amassed a sizeable fortune. As one of the pioneers of early advertising, his mantra was that you didn’t have to be an aristocrat to enjoy a great cup of tea.
There were also various claims for the medicinal benefits of drinking tea. In some ways however, the expansion of tea-drinking in Britain meant that people were consuming more boiled water. This was less likely to carry pathogens unlike untreated water which possibly helped reduce some causes of early mortality.
The increasing popularity of tea also led to a large increase in the demand for porcelain. teacups, teapots, and dishes. Being British, there then of course developed the debate about the correct way to hold the cup. If seated at a table, the proper manner to drink tea would be to raise the teacup only, placing it back into the saucer in between sips. If standing without a table, you should hold the cup and saucer and between sips rest the teacup back in the saucer at waist height resisting the desire to wave it around in the air, let alone extend any little fingers.
The novelist and writer George Orwell wrote, “tea is one of the mainstays of civilisation in this country and causes violent disputes over how it should be made”. The question is whether to put the tea in the cup first and add the milk afterwards or to do the reverse. There are determined schools of thought….
Putting the tea in front of Hannah, you only need one look at her face and you know whether you have been successful or it is indeed the tepid cup of P*** against which Dame Maggie took such umbrage.
Thank you,
Lady Carnarvon.
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Blessings.
Enjoyed this week’s column. Big tea drinker. Have a wonderful week.
What a delightful commentary and history of
tea! Yoir lovely voice resonates throuhout, Thank
you, dear Lady!
Very kind
As an American, the only tea I was ever exposed to was that horrid green tea that my mother drinks. Although, I’ve friends in Enfield, Glasgow, and Manchester that have since instructed me in the proper usage and drinking of tea. I do prefer mine with milk, but I cannot abide lemon. I do believe my favorite is Earl Grey, but I have a rather nice chocolate flavored tea that I treat myself with once in a great while. Thank you for the lesson. I hope you have a lovely day.
I have a British friend who made me a cup of tea… the English way. So different and delicious. It’s fun to experience even something as simple as a cup of tea in a new way.
Great article! As an American I am a huge tea fan! I have a small tea room here at my farm. I am so excited to come in August to have a first ever official English tea!!! I hope I get to meet you all!
Great article. Tea is one of my favorite beverages.
And mine!
J´adore vos chroniques.
Remind me of your beautiful castle i visited last year.
I confirm french people dont know how to drink tea.
Kindest regards
Once again an informative and funny article ! Tea a surely the BEST drink ever !
With best wishes,
Thank you !!!
The timing of this article was perfect. I will be in Darjeeling later this week and am looking forward to tasting the tea there.
I have had the exact same conversation in USA as Maggie and laughed my head off in the cinema when I first saw this!
In regards to milk first or after, it needs to be milk first in delicate china to prevent the cup from cracking. This is only possible if you use real tea leaves brewed in a pot to perfect strength. If you try to use teabags the cold milk will make the water too tepid and you won’t get any flavour.
Of course why would you be using teabags, I heard you shudder and say!!
I am on my way home from Japan where they really extend the possibility of tea way beyond the camellia. We enjoyed the black bean tea and the genmaicha with roasted rice.
Thanks for another lovely post.
I am an American, but both of my grandmothers are children of British immigrants, and I love tea! I drink mine black and cannot imagine putting cream or milk in it. I worked with a British nurse years ago and I was shocked to watch her pour milk into her iced tea! I am sipping my “cuppa” now. Thanks for the lovely post this morning!
Enjoy your cuppa
I laughed at the Maggie Smith reference from The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel reference. I had forgotten how funny that scene was. Thank you for the bit of history of tea. I think I will enjoy a cuppa while watching that movie again tonight.
I love this. I’m a tea drinker too.
Thank you
The history of tea is absolutely fascinating.
When it was only grown in China we used to exchange opium to the Chinese for their tea.
Eventually some plants were smuggled out of China to India and on from there.That is when the price of tea became more affordable, but still locked away in a tea caddy
too expensive still for many people.
The fastest clippers home would get the best price from the merchants in U.K.
One of my best memories is sitting in a tea plantation in Sri Lanka drinking broken orange pekoe.No milk of course.
Interesting article, I especially enjoyed the reference to Dame Maggie Smiths comment. It was priceless!
I often think about that line in the movie of needing boiling hot water to seep one’s tea . To me nothing is more comforting than a cup of tea! Thank you
Such a lovely article! I remember having my afternoon tea in Highclere. It was a wonderful experience.
Lovely Blog Lady C, I am having tea now, Darjeeling in fact as I read your article. Color is indeed the important and the right temperature! If I may ask how do you come up every Monday for a Blog? I look forward to each and everyon! It is always a lovely read. x
You are kind – I am always walking reading and listening and something pops up!
Good morning! Tea, what a refreshing drink, hot in the fall and winter, iced in the summer! One always feels better after drinking it. Serving it in fancy tea cups amd from an elegant tea pot makes it extra special. Adding sugar “doilies” adds a sweet touch and do not forget the cozy to keep the tea hot so as to enjoy your second cup! Enjoy a cuppa! Carolyn Dear
And we sell tea cosies in the gift shop!!
It is my pleasure to have a cup of English Breakfast Tea every morning, but I wouldn’t want a “tepid” cup of anything!
Wonderful explanation of teas origin and use! I met you at a Victorian Garden Party after we both had our hair done byThe Victorian Rollers, and I had the pleasure of presenting you with my book “The Art of Afternoon Tea.”
I know you meet thousands of people, but for me it was such a joy and a wonderful day. I so enjoyed the opportunity to speak with you and Lord Canarvon. We chatted with him in the Silver Vaults and after he asked us where we were from, (Denver) he shared his mother was from Sheridan, Wyoming, my husband’s home town!
We are hoping to return to Highclere soon!!
Look forward to seeing you again hopefully.
Enjoyed your article very much, and it reminded me of the delicious tea I had at Highclere Castle last June with my son . We were in England with our whole family from Michigan and California. I was born in England and I wanted to show my grandchildren where I was from.
Thank you Carol. Hopefully we’ll see you again soon.
My parents were always tea drinkers. I knew nothing about coffee until I was grown. Two tea bags in each cup and they had to seep for a good 5 minutes. Thank you for lovely article that was brought back such fond memories.
This is a wonderful way to start my Monday…and even though not British, but having been married to one…I start every day with a cuppa tea, British style. High tea at Highclere was a wonderful way to celebrate my birthday nearly six years ago, part of a bucket list trip never to be forgotten. Thank you!
Lovely the pictures of tea did you and lord Carnarvon have a wonderful weekend and l am fan of Downton Abbey and lovely highcelere castle
Lovely column, as a Canadian, we drink tea, especially when we have a cold or flu as a restorative or palatable drink. I have wanted do do an afternoon tea here there are tea rooms that offer, but somehow it doesn’t seem quite the same as the UK. Have a lovely day!
I can’t imagine a day without savoring my English Breakfast tea with milk. It’s relaxing, comforting and the perfect antidote to stress. Thank goodness the English perfected this lovely custom so a Yank like me can enjoy it. Aways appreciate you sharing your stories and insights, thank you!
I do struggle with finding a proper cup of tea in the USA
My dear Lady Carnarvon,
What a wonderful post this week!
I giggled out loud at the reference to Dame Maggie Smith’s scene, and often think of the dear lady when I’m making myself a cuppa. I prefer just sugar in my Royal Blend from Fortnum & Mason. Back in 2019, I visited the UK as part of a group led by a childhood friend. He and I capped off our visit with tea at the British Museum. As we live in different states about 1200 miles a part, we don’t see each other very often, but keep the friendship very much alive by meeting for tea on Mondays at 4:00 pm, via telephone. We each make ourselves a cuppa and settle down for a nice chat. It’s a tradition we very much enjoy.
Thank you for all of your informative, entertaining posts!
As I am not a coffee drinker, I have a cup of tea every morning and in our winter season I do have another cup in the afternoon to warm me up. This morning as reading your wonderful Blog while I have my breakfast my tea is in my British cup that states Keep Calm And Carry On!
I did very much enjoy afternoon Tea Service there at Highclere Castle when I did live in London almost 2 years and visited 2 times and also at the Ritz Carlton.
Thank you again for another lovely written Blog with lovely photos.
I’m glad you enjoyed your tea here, thank you.
Lady Carnarvon,
I am continually amazed by your extensive knowledge and always learn something new! We have a plethora of Camellias here in the southern part of the US which we love and I am stunned I did not know that TEA was in that “family”! Thank you.
Have a lovely day,
Gay Hightower
Flowering garden camellias are lovely too
Hello Lady Carnarvon.
A real insight into the world of tea preparation etc.
It reminded me of the story of a little old lady that said she found it very difficult to remove the tea from the bag. Poor thing.
Then the question arises, should you stir clockwise or anti clockwise. Depends which hemisphere you are in.
I recall the time I wanted a cuppa when I visited Salisbury Cathedral.
Called into the newly opened Tower Tea Rooms opposite the Cathedral. Only wanted a cuppa, but I received a full tea service with all the trimmings. Felt rather privileged. That sort of occasion when I expected to be joined by Miss Marple and Dolly Bantry.
Carry on Hannah!
Your tea at Salisbury sounded exquisite.
Thankyou
Afternoon tea is the best but maybe always it seems better from a china cup and saucer and teapot beside an open fire
Had wonderful afternoon tea with my friend on the lawn last May on a glorious day at your home Highclere
Simply the best
Anne
Thank you Anne, I’m pleased you had such a good time, hopefully we’ll see you again another day.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
Thank you for this lovely article on tea.
I take my afternoon tea with digestive biscuits….. mainly Earl Grey, but also love English breakfast tea
Macha tea from Japan is different, but worth a try.
Best wishes
I thoroughly enjoyed this interesting and informative article. I drink both tea and coffee but if I were ever told that I could have only have one of them I would, of course, chose tea. Coffee is coffee but there are so many different types of tea to enjoy. There is a cupboard in my kitchen that holds nothing but my tea. So many varieties from which I can choose depending on my mood. Earl and Lady Grey are my favorites. When we visited England back in 2015, my friend Darlene and I were determined to have tea in as many different tea rooms as possible. We were fortunate to visit Highclere and had a lovely afternoon tea experience. Keep Calm and Drink Tea!’
Thank you Elizabeth.
Lady Carnarvon, tea time is a special time in the day for me. I love Yorkshire tea and PG Tips. Good tea and conversation.
For me it has to be Yorkshire tea,tea bag in hot water add milk then enjoy.
Good Afternoon Lady Carnarvon,
If I have timed it right, it’s about tea time for you, which for me is also a delight. (You can take the girl out of England, but not England out of the girl). As a result there’s never ending discussions as to whether tea is afternoon or high tea. (Facebook discussions about this could go on for hours). My mother, now living in Malta, has moved onto green tea, but I like English Breakfast tea in the morning and a Earl Grey later. Yours look fantastic, plus the biscuits.
Have a lovely week.
Mary L. Mantel
I loved this article on tea and the traditions associated along with it. It may be a nice article for Victoria magazine. I’m excited for more issues with your articles. I will raise my cup or Earl Grey to you this afternoon and remember your article. Cheers!
I love that tea is bringing us all together! Every Monday I wonder if I get it right with my “musings!”
Thank goodness I had my Irish Nana (I’m American) to show me how to make a proper “cuppa”. She passed long ago back in the 80’s but I still use her Brown Betty to make my tea.
Here in the US, I love my Lipton tea..thank you Thomas!
My wife and I start our day off with two cuppas everyday as we sit and talk about many things including what we plan to do each day.
I am American, but I have wonderful memories of visiting my Scottish grandmother when she lived in Illinois. She would make tea for me and my sisters by putting loose tea in the teapot then pouring a cup for each of us. Then after we drank the tea, there would be tea leaves left at the bottom of the cup and my grandmother would take the cup and “read our fortune” in the tea leaves. Of course the fortune was always something good. I was amazed at how she could do that! Now every time I drink a cup of tea I think of her.
Thank you! wonderful post on tea. I continue to enjoy afternoon tea at home in the US, a tradition carryover from my university days when our Department of Physics had traditional afternoon tea, where students, faculty and staff came together and listened to memorable lectures. My family thoroughly enjoyed tea as well during my visit to the fabulous Highclere Castle. Now, either I frequently travel to Bristol, UK to visit my daughter and enjoy an afternoon tea at Bath’s Pump Room when possible, or in the US to Mohonk Mountain House to relax, savor, and enjoy a summer tea during the year.
Once again an informative and funny article, about probably my favourite drink ever !
With best wishes,
MR
I love your essay about tea. As an American, I always feel like an outsider because I don’t like coffee and never have (coffee ice cream, however, is yummy). But I am gaga about tea.
During our trip to England last August/September, a visit to the Twinings shop on London’s Strand (there since (1706!) was high on my MUST SEE list. Of course, I bought lots of tea, and ordered teacups, tea, and biscuits from their website to send home for my sisters, BFF, and myself.
We enjoyed having tea during our visit to Highclere, but must admit that our favorite was afternoon tea in the garden at the Royal Crescent Hotel in Bath, where we stayed after leaving London. If you are ever in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, when visiting the States, be sure to enjoy afternoon tea on the 23rd floor of The Pfister Hotel. The tea sommelier will give you 12+ choices of tea to go with your tiered selection of sandwiches, scones, and sweets. And you’ll enjoy a bird’s eye view of Lake Michigan and downtown buildings.
But nothing beats making and enjoying tea at home, from selecting which cup to use, choosing the tea, and waiting for it to steep. Such a civilized way to take a break in one’s daily activities.
Thank you for this post. I’m American and don’t drink coffee, but have loved tea since college. I’m a self-confessed “tea snob” and much prefer tea made with loose tea, but I confess to resorting to teabags for convenience at work. I look forward to weekends when I can make a nice pot of tea and drink at my leisure.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
I so enjoyed your article today. My dad drank only tea, bringing back fond memories of him at the table with his tea. I also love tea and enjoy it each morning. I would love to have a cuppa at 4:00. It would slow the day down and give me a breather.
Enjoy your tea,
Pam Oates
Thank you for the interesting article! I drink tea daily – Earl Gray at work, and Yorkshire Gold other times. I hope I haven’t started an argument over which is best. 😉
a good debate
I’ve been sick over this past weekend and have been enjoying some Earl Gray tea to calm the cough. What would you say is the best brand of tea in your part of England?
My husband likes Yorkshire (loose leaf) tea first thing in the morning .. there is Twinings, Liptons, Fortnum and Masons.. Jacksons of Picadilly, all fun to try
Well your story is lovely, and a good explanation however; as an American-born lass, I must have my coffee! Tea is good if there is no coffee, but I can’t imagine a world without coffee! Hope you enjoyed your lovely tea break this afternoon !
Lady Carnarvon,
Thank you for this story! Tea is a gracious drink with which to relax and ponder, if alone and drowsy. With others, it begs to compare “seep” and “steep” – as in the tea leaves. I grew up saying “steep” and had no idea why, so I used the internet to explain that either is correct. From now on I prefer “seep” so as not to think of high hills. Thank you for encouraging my research.
Have a wonderful time with Hannah and friends!
Martha G
Thank you for this mornings wonderful subject of tea. Our family are avid tea drinkers and have been since we were all around 2 years old. Being Welsh, our grandmothers, aunties and mother always seemed to have the kettle boiling and a refreshing cup of tea made at regular intervals of the day and the last drink at night. Sadly the younger generation in our family don’t drink it, just an occasional cup of coffee. In fact some no hot drinks except an occasional hot chocolate! We are indeed so grateful to the likes of Lipton and Clive of India for bringing us tea. Our day starts early with a piping hot cup of tea and ends with one at around 10pm. Oh and it has to be drunk from fine China – not thick mugs. Our preference is Dunoon. Funny how tea tastes so much better when you drink it from beautiful china.
I am so glad to be from South Carolina where we have the only tea plantation in the Americas. My great aunt started me drinking hot tea at the tender age of three and some 70 years later it is still my favourite drink. Sometime in the future I’ll be drinking tea at Highclere…….until then, keep finding cultural yet new ways to instruct us.
Fascnating!
Dear Lady Carnarvon
I so enjoy your delightful and informative articles every Monday morning.
I learned to make “proper” Afternoon Tea from my British born grandmother.
Grandma was a maid in the home of one of Queen Mary’s Ladies in waiting during
WW1 before she emigrated to Canada. She taught me how to set a beautiful yet simple table for Tea time, using Linen or flower printed napkins and the best tea and china.
And of course, you always must pour the milk in the cup first!
I live in So. CA USA now and delight in sharing the art and pleasure of taking tea with friends and relatives.
My husband and I enjoyed our visit to Highclere Castle in May 2023— would love to come back sometime.
Blessings to you in the work you do to preserve and perpetuate the treasure that is Highclere
I quite enjoy tea myself. As an American, I must say I prefer tea more than most people in my town. I love seeing all the sorts or tea wares at Highclere.
Best wishes Your Ladyship.
-Cole G
Such an interesting article thank you. My husband and I continue the tradition of taking afternoon tea, although we usually take it at 3pm, since here in the US we tend to dine earlier. I refuse to drink the tea sold here and after my visits home to Wales we return to the US with enough tea to last till our next trip. I prefer my tea with a little milk and no sugar. We have also converted many of our American friends to afternoon tea, and often replenish their supply from ours. But we have had to teach some that high tea and afternoon tea are really not the same. Several years ago when my daughter and I visited your lovely home, we enjoyed taking tea there. We hope to do so again soon.
Lady Carnarvon,
I love a cup of chamomile tea and an oatmeal cookie (biscuit) in the evening.
Here is my question: Do you pour the tea first or the milk first?
Thank you!
I certainly pour in tea first and let it steep… smell and the colour coming through first
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
I remember when I was a teenager my mother and great aunt would prepare cold Lipton tea for us. But, when I started appreciating classical music in college, I started drinking tea with milk before class. Later on, I moved to coffee. Two a day. Now I drink more dark tea or with cream. Only one coffee in the morning. Tea is much healthier. It has many benefits.
In a family of many coffee drinkers, I emerged as the sole tea drinker. Black tea with sugar only, please!
I like coffee too!
My husband and I were fortunate to enjoy high tea at Highclere back in September 2019. After a tour of the home, we enjoyed our tea and scones and sandwiches on the lawn.
Looking forward to visiting again.
Thank you. – look forward to seeing you!
Lady Carnarvon,
Thank you for a lovely read. I am reminded of a dear friend whom I met while
living in California, U. S. A. She is a native of Scotland, but now a citizen here. We often had tea at her house, but one day I invited her to tea at mine. I was a little nervous about my presentation, so I was very careful to properly prep. She took her first sip and declared, “Aye, ya make a fine cuppa tea (long pause) fare a yank.”
We had a hearty laugh and a never forgotten afternoon. We are still close friends more than forty years later. When I found my deep Scottish heritage we were both delighted. She declared again, “Aye there is a connection, ye’re a bloody Scot.” We miss our tea times together. Tea is always a delight with a friend or even alone.☕️
Dorothy Sipes
Faithful reader.
I enjoy tea from fine bone china and poured from a lovely China tea pot. In fact I enjoy it so much. I often put pictures of my tea on Facebook and people enjoy seeing the beautiful china on the tray usually with a tiny vase of flowers in the corner of the tray I’ve been
I’ve been enjoying tea for 70 years and I guess I’ll never change now!
Since tea is my favorite beverage (NEVER coffee), I was delighted to see your Blog about Tea. Its history has always fascinated me. As I am a Scot on my father’s side and English on my mother’s, tea is naturally in my blood. Mom, 91, and I have tea every afternoon when I visit. A perfect part of the day!
Thank you!
Very fun post! I lived in Ireland my junior year of college (I’m American) and I recall that someone told us to “scald” the tea cup first (pour in hot water, then pour it out, so the cup is warmed and ready to receive the tea). I always try to! I like Constant Comment, which is a spicy, orange tea.
Thank you for this well-written and informative essay.
I enjoy my tea time immensely. One of my most memorable teas was enjoyed in the garden at Highclere Castle. Thank you again for making that possible.
At home I prefer Darvilles of Windsor English Breakfast Tea.
Dear Lady Carnarvon:
Thank you for this Monday’s informative blog and nod to Dame Maggie Smith. Love Hannah G.’s, Highclere tea aficionado’s attitude.
For me, any time is teatime. Day-caffeinated; night-decaffeinated. Always with lemon and honey.
Until next week, happy steeping.
Perpetua Crawford
Although here in Colombia, we are more coffee drinkers (We have the BEST coffee in the world). I’m sure Lady Carnarvon has tasted our coffee. Tea is becoming very popular. I myself enjoy a lot the afternoon tea, but not at 4pm. We take it at 5pm. Best wishes!!