
Being a brick is undoubtedly a term of high praise, highlighting qualities of character and friendship such as reliability and constancy. Apparently the expression is said to have originated with King Lycurgus of Sparta, who, questioned about the absence of defensive walls around his city replied ‘There are Sparta’s walls,’ he replied, pointing at his soldiers, ‘and every man is a brick.”
It is however quite the same thing which might have been said by P G Wodehouse’s character Bertie Wooster as his butler Jeeves saved him once more from some unfortunate caper. Equally I can imagine Lady Mary or another character in Downton Abbey may have said it most approvingly… but in any case it is a comment still exclaimed here at Highclere.
We do have plenty of walls and bricks here and of course leaving such expressions aside, there is a practical, constant need to rebuild or repoint. I have actually tried to help build a wall and there is a rhythm and process which was addictive but I do need much more practise in order not to be simply a liability with trowel and mortar. Having started to help (or not) however I wanted to continue.
Here at Highclere we are once again preparing for our history festival weekend. This year we are looking at life here in World War 2, with of course our own Winston Churchill returning to walk amongst us. One of Churchill’s pastimes to ‘chill out’ was to lay bricks, build a wall, something entirely manual. Something like this helps develop concentration and detaches our minds from everyday stresses.
Many of us spend a considerable portion of our days reading emails, answering them, discussing issues and plans, convening meetings, answering seemingly endless questions and, in my case, writing articles.
One hundred and fifty years ago the 4th Earl was also sitting here researching matters of discussion as a Minister in Queen Victoria’s government, distilling meetings and information and, at that time, handwriting letters in reply. He noted in his diaries the many walks he took to relax from thinking about knotty political issues and mentions his fondness for translating Ovid to while away the time on train journeys.
Hominins first appeared some six million years ago but the beginning of the Homo sapiens lineage probably dates only to about 550,000 to 750,000 years ago with the written word developing only in the last 7000 years. Therefore our physical and our subconscious behavioural traits and reactions have slowly developed over millennia of using tools and making things. Communicating through the ever more sophisticated use of language is a relatively shorter span of time – thus our current recorded writing evolution is only about 0.01% of the lineage of our race.
In order to understand where we are today it is always worthwhile seeking to understand the past. The evolution of homo sapiens and why and how we developed the way we have is, scientists point out, due to our ability to walk and move, to build things, solve problems and to live together.
Part of our dexterity and brain development was due to a change in diet which led us to eat mineral rich seafood. Basically, the seafood is rich in the omega 3’s (DHA), the more DHA the brighter the animal or mammal and humans have exceptionally high levels.
Archaeology has discovered that wherever early man is found, there is evidence of seafood consumption with the remains of shells and fish bones. This applies whether it is caves in South Africa where early remains were found with sea shells, or to Wales where a 40,000 year old Homo sapiens was found in the Gower peninsular with DNA evidence showing that a quarter of his diet was seafood.
According to the World Health Organisation, evidence today suggests that our brain size has reduced by 10 per cent. Arguably the digital age has put more stress on our brain function so there is an argument that we might need even more nutrients to maintain premium function. Unfortunately too many of us now eat the ultra processed food peddled by food manufacturers with their chemically induced instant feel good factors. Unfortunately, over stimulation of our systems by these chemicals actually depletes our dopamine. Serotonin levels decline as does tryptamine which are associated with happiness, connection, love, empathy and all those qualities which make us human.
Conscious of long hours spent in front of a computer, I make great efforts to try to ensure I spend time outside each day, walking along tree lined tracks or talking to my dogs or simply doing some gardening. I have huge respect for those putting another brick in the wall yet think that at heart I am a gardener rather than a bricklayer, but hope I might still qualify for the epithet of “being a brick”!
Lady Fiona,
J’aime mon jardin.
C’est ma vie.
J’aime tout les fleurs,
sont couleur, fraicher.
Leur ” smells “…
Les roses , sont pour moi
fantastique…
Leurs petals…
Ah !!! Mon Dieu…
Je suis une jardiniere.
Comme avait dit Voltaire:
“Il faut cultiver notre jardin”
VILLA ALEMÃ
RIO CLARO – SP
BRAZIL.
Otimo!
Thanks!
Lovely the pictures of being a brick did you and lord Carnarvon have a wonderful weekend and lam fan of Downton Abbey and lovely highcelere castle
Very interesting blog thank don’t think I would make a bricklayer !!!!!
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
You most certainly are a”brick”, and have engaged and moved forward during exceptionally challenging times, bringing us all hope and focus.
We have evolved by supporting and caring for each other, much like bricks providing shelter and strength. And the gardeners are surely horticultural bricks, bringing sustenance, beauty and peace.
Thank you for this beautiful post! Have you considered publishing a collection of your Monday posts? It would be a marvelous edition, allowing one to reread and reflect on your insights, stories, photographs and advice.
Be well and take good care.
Best regards,
Charlotte Merriam Cole
Dear Charlotte
I hadn’t thought of that but thank you for your really kind suggestion.
Have a wonderful week.
Lady Carnarvon
Ditto to Charlotte’s suggestion 😉 !
“publishing a collection of your Monday posts? It would be a marvelous edition, allowing one to reread and reflect on your insights, stories, photographs and advice.”
You are very kind
Such a lovely, thought provoking article. I certainly appreciate the skill in bricklaying and gardening! And I agree with your advice to eat more fresh wild-caught seafood and take daily walks for improved health.
Thank you for the history notes and thoughtful advice each week.
It’s been several years since my visit to your beautiful Highcleare property. I must plan a return trip! Greetings from Fairhope, Alabama USA
Lovely pictures Lady Carnarvon! I happen to be on vacation in America right now. Do you know where I can buy highclere castle gin in NYC ?
Hello Soraya
Thank you for your note. The gin is available in a few places here below but it’s also convenient for our colleagues in the US to deliver it to your home via the website. http://www.highclerecastlegin.com
Philippe Liquors (312 W 23rd Street)
Wine Wisdom (21W 46th Street)
Wine Heaven (333 3rd Ave)
Best wishes
Lady Carnarvon
THANK YOU FOR THE LOVELY PICTURES .
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
You are indeed a true brick – you do wonders for your beautiful home, gardens, family & each & every one of your visitors…..
You are the bricks & mortar that hold Highclere together, thank you xx
Too kind Caroline
I, too, am a gardener. I am 84 years young.
There is no place I’d rather be than outdoors in my yard, admiring or working in my garden/yard beds. This time of year (Autumn) I am putting my garden beds to bed for the Winter by cutting back all my perennials and laying down a few inches of my sifted compost to keep everything snug and cozy. J’aime mon jardin.
We are tidying but not yet cutting back!
Given your insights on the the daily practice of bringing together so many aspects of doing what needs to be done, I must say you are not only the “brick” but the essential mortar, as well, in building
and sharing your vison for Highclerre as a way of life. There is great balance and beauty evident in the craft of placing stones and laying bricks. Is it any wonder why we love reading your writing on this virtual wall?
You are very kind Marnie.
Best wishes
Lady Carnarvon
‘Is it any wonder why we love reading your writing on this virtual wall?’ What a lovely sentence and a lovely sentiment… well done!
You are certainly a “brick” in the way you help maintain an historical estate, promote it through your books and ensure its legacy lives on. You and Lord Carnarvon are indeed bricks! I just returned from Viking’s British Isles Explorer cruise with Churchill’s Britain extension. It’s so appropriate that another brick, Churchill, makes his appearance at Highclere!
Hello Ada
I’m sure you had the marvellous journey on Viking’s British Isles Explorer. I’m most envious.
Best wishes
Lady Carnarvon
Thank you Lady Carnarvon for another thoughtful writing for Monday. My father in law loved to build rock walls as well as his way to “chill out”. It brought back fond memories of his time spent building rock walls on our Hawaii home property. Oddly my brain had Pink Floyd’s lyrics “Another Brick in the Wall” pop into my head. 🙂
I was thinking of that song too!
Lady Carnarvon both you and your husband certainly are bricks! What you have done to maintain and share Highclere makes you both more than worthy of this status. Thank you!
Lady Carnarvon both you and your husband certainly are bricks! What you have done to maintain and share Highclere makes you both more than worthy of this status. Thank you!
Lovely photos of you! I am visiting the USA right now. Do you have any idea where I can find Highclere Gin in NYC.
Hello Eliza
I’ve just answered your question above.
Best wishes
Lady Carnarvon
Lady Carnarvon,
Thank you for an outstanding article. Your blog is always much loved and enjoyed here in the great state of Texas, where many “bricks” abide. All of my friends and I are loyal fans of Downton and Highclere.
Lord Carnarvon and Lady Carnarvon are very solid “bricks” in my humble opinion. I hope to see more programs of events at the castle with the two of you hosting. May God bless all of your efforts and projects.
A loyal reader,
Dorothy Sipes
Granbury, TX, USA
Very kind – I always find my visits to Texas so uplifting – everything is possible
Lovely picture of being a brick and did you and lord Carnarvon have a nice weekend and lam a fan of Downton Abbey and Highcelere castle
Good morning Lady Carnarvon,
I love the suggestion from Charlotte Merriam Cole (above) about publishing a collection of your posts! I have most of your Highclere books on my shelf, and that would be a wonderful addition. Lovely for the Highclere library, too?
Loved your article today! Brought to mind the architect Louis Kahn who talked about bricks. “You say to Brick, what do you want to be and Brick says, I want to be an arch”…. I thoroughly enjoy your way of expanding on a word or idea and giving us different ways of looking at our world. Thank you.
Another loyal reader from Fort Worth, Texas, (very near Granbury, above reader) home of the Louis Kahn Kimbell Art Museum.
And Fort Worth was teh name of the B-17 that sadly crashed here on May 5th 1945
I learned a lot about Winston when I was Chair of the Winston Churchill Travel Fellowship for the south. I arranged a special tree planting at Mottisfont Abbey. We started at the special brick works nearby and then planted the tree. I am deeply into old symbolism and history. I had recently heard of works being done in Parliament Square connected to the tree he said he wanted his statue putting near. I asked why he wanted to be by that tree. The tree has a common name namely The Indian Bean Tree so I thought it was a connection with his interest in the colonies. Then I found out it had another common name and that is The Cigar Tree !. He loved his cigars
Not done so much now but bricks were used to tune into numerical symbolism.
Everything to see, eat, drink and think goes into a protective box, your skull.Shape dome shaped. How many pieces ? 22.Origin of wisdom ?
Length of cricket pitch 22 yards, numbers in teams 22; same for football and number of balls on a snooker table.
Our old town hall in Whitchurch Hampshire has an entrance and over it an arch. In centre a key stone, either side 22 bricks. So two heads are better than one.
Count bricks anywhere. Special numbers 13 was always lucky 14 lunar: 15 greenman: 18 number of isis; 24 hours in day; (count panes in red telephone boxes)33 number of pieces in something hidden, strong and flexible supports you for your useful life. Age of Christ and pieces in your spine.
Dear Lady Carnarvon, I found original sheet music of, “If You Were the Only Girl in the World”, the song Matthew and Mary Crawley sang together at a concert in Downton Abbey. I found it in an antique shop here in Arizona. The copyright is 1916, if I read the Roman numerals correctly. I would like to donate it to the castle if you think it might be of interest. We are visiting in October from the United States and I could bring it with me. Have a wonderful day!
That would be so kind!
What a special find! It is very kind of you to get such a poignant memento to Highclere Castle!
Your expertise, vast knowledge and way of writing continues to amaze me every time I read your blog.
Thank you for what you do.
Lady Carnarvon,
Thank you for reminding me that being called a brick is a compliment, something my mother has referred to me as over the years. I have said before, I have no talent as a gardener, but love hearing about your talents as one, and now, as a bricklayer, as well. Have a wonderful week.
Mary L. Mantel
(San Angelo, TX).
Your introduction reminded me of the title of an anthology of girls’ stories, “You’re A Brick, Angela” – published in the 1970s.
My local library has a wonderful walkway leading to the front door, paved entirely with ‘message’ bricks purchased by people who wanted to support the library and memorialize a loved one. The brick my friends and I bought says simply FOR BOOK LOVER P. YVONNE ALAN — WE MISS YOU. Another good use for bricks.
How lovely
Lady Carnarvon,
Being a ‘brick’ is certainly a compliment. It doesn’t seem to be well-known in the states, but it is a worthy term. Bricklaying in Colonial Williamsburg is a lovely example of the talent of bricklayers. Enjoy all of your brick walls – they keep out what needs to be, and keep in what needs to be.
Have a lovely almost Fall week!
Martha
You are truly a brick!
Life’s path is an extraordinary thing and as complicated as the many bricks required to build a wall. Just like life the wall too has a history and a future.
I’m about to place my brick in the history of Highclere Church, when I make the new tower bell ropes. I feel privileged to be part of this amazing place.
Brick people are those that DO. Lady Carnarvon you most certainly are a doer.
Trevor
Dear Lady Carnarvon:
Thank you for this Monday’s blog and such a thought-provoking story.
Until next time, all the best to you.
Perpetua Crawford
P.S. There is section within the City of Detroit known as “Bricktown”. As the name implies, this was the area of the city where all the bricks were made for construction of the buildings, houses, and roads. One such brick road still exists in “Corktown” and has held up nicely against all the tests of element and time.