
When my son Edward went to prep school some ten years ago, he had to write a letter to us each week. Lines ruled on writing paper, pencil at the ready he would tell us about the weather. His father would receive it and come padding through to me saying in an irritated voice, “Why do I want to know about the weather? I can see the weather, why he can’t he write about something else?” I would make such a suggestion to Eddie, who took no notice. Not only would every letter continue to contemplate the weather but, given it annoyed his father, would consider it in even greater length.
The weather, however, remains a central topic of conversation every day. It has been an extraordinary year; from March snows to a deluge of water and now a brown, shimmering savannah. The place to find shelter and shade is always under the trees with their own micro-systems emitting air and moisture and somehow the colour and rustle of the leaves help me feel better and cooler.
My husband is now embroiled in the harvest which has started early, and is happy with the weight and colour of the oats, some of the wheat is good, we are not going to get a second cut of haylage until the autumn and where are the sheep going to find grass?
Sally in the gift shop has sold a lot of sun hats and visitors have wandered around just as the poet A. E. Houseman puts it “the idle hill of summer” with drowsy insects in the wildflower meadow, the house martins reinforcing their nests under the soffits around the Castle courtyard.
Today, it is all change again. As I sit here looking out towards the folly high on the hills – Heaven’s Gate – it is raining and we have the traditional squally British summer weather and I so I rather hope Sally has rain hats and a few of her green ponchos ready to hand in the shop.
Houseman’s poem begins in summer and moves to the battlefields of the First World War:
Far I hear the steady drummer
Drumming like a noise in dreams.
Far and near and low and louder
On the roads of earth go by,
Dear to friends and food for powder,
Soldiers marching, all to die…….
None that go return again.
It is an uncompromising poem, and reading it today alongside the history of the time can any of us understand why we did not reach a compromise?
Today, our unexpectedly hazy, hot summer has ended and we are dealing with gusty winds and rain instead of blazing sunshine. It is not yet lunchtime. Already I miss it.
I will nevertheless go back for a walk in the rain to the Wood of Goodwill just down from the wildflower meadow, because my old grey Arab mare has died and I thought, in her memory, I would plant a beautiful, white stemmed tree which would glint in the moonlight as she did, turning to me with her dark, wise eyes.
The silver lining is that next week Finse is going to have puppies so I think my office, and Karine and Viking’s office, will all move into the whelping box and the cycle of life will go on.
MY DEAR LADY CARNARVON,
BELOS COMENTARIOS .COMO SEMPRE EU ESPERO QUE VOCE ESTEJA TENDO UM DIA MARAVILHOSO E OBRIGADA POR SER TÃO GRACIOSA E ENCORAJADORA PARA COM OS SEUS FANS DE HIGHCLERE CASTLE
Lovely, touching.
Thank you.
So sorry for your loss.
My dear Lady Carnarvon,
You write so beautifully I can almost smell the summer showers. Quite sad to hear about your old gray mare, but that new litter of puppies will help to allay her passing. Yes, and even here in south Florida we are aware of the passage of time…He waits for no one. Awaiting your next blog…
All the best,
Sandra Johnson
Cycle of life
How beautiful this post is today. All of it is one long poem. Brings back memories of summer days of my youth and memories of how quickly they passed. Lovely photos too. Today is my birthday and your post resonated with me today. Thank you for your lovely writing.
We miss Downton Abbey and are so excited to hear that the movie will be made there now.
Elaine in Cary, North Carolina, USA
A very happy birthday!
Here in Dallas, TX we’re dealing with an extremely hot summer. We’re being warned to look out for scorpions in the house, it’s too hot for them outside and they are trying to come in to the air conditioning. Now that’s hot even for Texas! BUT this morning we actually have a good chance of rain. It’s very dark and windy I’m really praying we’ll get a good soaking.
Enjoy your rainy day and hope we get a little bit of rain today,
Judy McGrath
I hope you get rain as well!
Hello from Fort Worth ! We have high winds and three drops of rain. My lawn has finally given up the ghost and looks like Lady C’s first picture
Dear Lady Carnarvon thank you for sharing so much of your life with me. Sorry to hear about the death of your mare. Congratulations on the new litter puppies. Again thank you for sharing. God bless.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
Your descriptions of English weather, as well as your son, are poignant, informational and take us right into your life. I hope you know how much we all enjoy your writing. Your description of the loss of your beloved Arab mare, though brief, touched my heart. Best wishes for a fine set of pups from Finse and thank you again for including all of us in your life at Highclere.
I am about to pop down and see Karine and Finse in a second – a bit of a hug!!
I hit send too soon. I’m so sorry to hear about your loss – planting a tree will be a wonderful way to remember her.
Trees help don’t they? They will outlive us. The trouble with dogs and horses is that they go ahead of us..
Oh,my goodness Dear One, so very sorry to hear of your beautiful horse’s passing. What a treasured friend.
On a previous visit she stood proudly by the fence as we slowly drove away from the Castle. As we approached her standing there I asked our driver to please go slowly so I could get a good look at her. I began talking to her. She lifted her head and almost smiled at us as we passed slowly by. I told her how beautiful she was and I wish I had an apple or carrot to give her.
We are the blessed ones to have shared our lives with such magnificent creatures. Again, I am truly sorry for your loss. Blessings, Pam
Arabs do talk and I thought I might take Phoebe my baby Arab (if rather large!) for a walk tomorrow morning…
So so sorry to hear your sad news…years ago I lost my gray mare to very old age (33)…she was my rock and had kept me going through some very hard times…to this day I can still remember the feeling of warmth and comfort from her soft furry body while I was grooming her! As you said, ‘life goes on’, but the memories linger…and we never forget them. The idea of a white birch in her memory is a wonderful idea!
So very sorry you lost your beautiful grey mare.
Thank you
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
My condolences on the passing of Azzie. She is a beautiful lady and will never be gone from your heart. I will miss seeing her bouncing gait, the turn of her head into your shoulder. How old was she, ccause of death at passing? She is at peace.
She is at peace – she was a good age and I had not ridden her for while.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
The weather-always a topic of conversation and I think EVERYONE across the world has had a very dry summer. The rain gives the grass and trees some much needed moisture. Sometimes rain annoys me but after a while I was hoping for some rain to soak the grass. I pass along my condolences for the loss of your beautiful mare. She was a beauty. I love your tradition of planting a tree for those who are lost at Highclere. This is so meaningful and it is a lasting tribute that will live on in the persons (or animals) memory for many years to come. I agree with my fellow bloggers that beautiful bouncing puppies will ease your pain somewhat. They will add lots of happy new life to Highclere and aren’t puppies just the cutest?
Hoping happiness come to Highclere in a shower,
Ann Catherine Flood
Puppies will be wonderfully demanding and my husband has resigned himself to another dog!
What a touching memorial for such a beautiful mare. She was lucky to be in your care and had such a great home.
Edwards letters gave me quite a chuckle. Reminds me that boys are the same all over the world. I am so sad to hear of Azzie’s passing. I know how much you loved her, and all your horse family. I love the picture of you and Azzie. Suitable for framing for sure and the tree in her honor will be a pleasant reminder of her beautiful life.
The birth of Finse’s puppies will make the castle smile again! I can’t wait to see them as I know they will be adorable and, most likely, the subject of many more of yours and Karine’s childrens’ books that my grandchildren absolutely love.
Thinking of you and sending all best wishes,
Patsy
I am so lucky, Patsy, that the puppies are here any moment, it is sometimes a bit of a struggle
Lady Carnarvon, I am so sorry to hear that you’ve lost your mare. Often I think of the pony and horse that took care of me when I was growing up. Sometimes I dream of them. I like to think that they are saying hello. Kindest regards, sweet dreams, and warm wishes from Tennessee, USA.
Beautiful this post is today.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of this majestic being. How blessed we are to share life with them…
We are blessed
So sorry for your loss and know there is now an emptiness left in your heart. I shed a tear reading the post. I always plant a tree for a loss: life to remember a life.
God bless,
Marsha
So sorry for your loss
Your quote your “old grey mare” reminded me of a childhood song about the old grey mare…I don’t remember it well. I didn’t want to make you cry anyway…….losing a pet is hard enough. Luckily, you will have squiggly puppies to fill your days and keep your thoughts happier. Life does go on it is just a bit different without that constant other.
I hope you share your puppy pictures. All your dogs are beautiful.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
My condolences on the loss of your lovely gray mare. Your tribute to her is a wonderful memory and worthy of her love and companionship. Exquisite post. ❤️
Very sorry for your lost, dear Lady Carnarvon. Beautifully written.
Somehow animals have a way of finding the deepest part of our hearts and it is such a profound loss when they pass– my sincere sympathy to you.
Dear Lady Carnarvon: I am so sorry to hear of your beautiful horse’s passing away. Do you know about the Rainbow Bridge? If not, here is a brief description: it is place to which ALL of our beloved pets (regardless of species) go to when they die; it is there that they await us, and since there is no TIME there, they wait for us to come to see them, which happens (to them) instantaneously! They see us, and leap, hop, gallop, fly, or sprint over to us, and we are all happy once again. Best, Reisa (in Houston, Texas, where the weather is brutally hot!)
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
I am so sorry for you!
A few years ago I lost my horse at the age of 30 years old. He was amazing horse and a marvelous friend! So I puted a grave with rocks and wild flowers in my field and every day I take a walk with my dogs and my cats and always have good memories of the days we spend riding together. We are blessed to have so good animal by our side and we have to remember that is the wheel of life!
I wish you many more summer days, green and not too dry!
Luce From Québec, Canada
http://www.lucefontaine.com
Fellow animal lovers are sending you hugs. Though the years I have lost dog and cat friends, as well as my white mare. They give us so much, which is why we go through it over and over, helpless to say no more. All of my animals have been rescues, which somehow helps. Thank you for sharing bits of your life. Your mare was indeed beautiful.
I, too had a grey Arab. We bought him to rescue him from being used too harshly as a schooling horse, as he was elderly.
He adored my son, and while my son was away helping my parents through my dad’s terminal illness, I had to break the news to him that colic had taken his gelding away.
It’s never easy to lose a companion animal….
I kept some of his tail hair, and will commission a vase that will have the hair burned into it as a memorial to a small horse with a great heart.
Sorry for your lost. They do have a way of leaving such a void at their passing.
All my best to you.
Thank you
I feel for your loss. Losing a beloved pet is so hard. Thankfully the cycle of life does go on and the joy we get from each little thing gradually lifts us away from our grief. I enjoy your columns, you bring us right into your world and help me see mine in a different light too. Thank you, keep on writing! ~ Jacqueline N.
Dear Lady Carnarvon, Thank you once again for a wonderful blog, and sorry to hear about the passing of your beautiful mare, but the arrival of the new puppies, will be something to look forward to, It will be a year tomorrow, since my beautiful German shepherd died, I decided to plant a yellow rose in his memory, his favourite ball was always yellow, for some reason he wouldn’t entertain any other colour. Please let us know about the puppies.
Best wishes to you and your family, including the furry ones. Lorraine.xxxx
I cannot wait to share puppy news..
School letters home are best when they only record the weather ! But the habit of writing home each week stays. My son is editing all my husband’s letters from School, Army and work. They are fascinating, years on. I am sorry about your beautiful horse; losing a dear friend is so terribly hard. We had a near miss this week in the terrible heat here in Texas. The frailest of my cats (probably not the brightest of that litter) went out into the outside run (they are kept in to protect them from the coyotes) and was there overnight. Next day I tried again to get her to come in. By mid afternoon and the heat was over 40C she was lying down. I managed to get into the run and grab her but even though she was weak she managed to maul me. However, she is sitting in the kitchen and is recovering. I really believe she did not know how to get back through the cat flap and thought my calling, waving plates of food and sending her mother out to her was merely a side show. So, old horses, old people and old cats get a little frail and forgetful. Such is life. By the way, my lawns look the the first picture on your blog…but with fewer stalks and more bare earth.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
What a beautiful photo you posted of your lovely mare standing beside and sharing the moment with you. You obviously shared a wonderful bond. That inspired me to locate the following two verses – although their respective authors remain unknown to me:
“ At its finest, rider and horse are joined not by tack, but by trust. Each is totally reliant upon the other. Each is the selfless guardian of the other’s very well-being.”
And:
“A stubborn horse walks behind you, an impatient horse walks in front of you,
but a noble companion walks beside you.”
Yours was indeed a noble companion.
Your planned tribute also says a lot about your good self as it does of your companion.
“A true horsewoman does not look at the horse with her eyes, she looks at her horse with her heart.”
May you be eased and comforted by the undoubted many happy memories that you have of your lovely mare.
Kindest regards,
Jeffery Sewell
PS I shall sign off for now with the following:
“I’ve spent most of my life riding horses. The rest I’ve just wasted.”
The quotes are so apt – thank you
Look forward to your blogs so sorry to hear about your mare new life arriving with puppies I wonder if Lord Carnarvon will let you keep one xx
As a person who becomes incredibly attached to furry “family” members, I know too well the grief that one experiences upon their passing. My deepest sympathies for your loss.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
Here is a another “weather” letter to you and your redoubtable husband: Weather at our place in Central Texas has been much better this year and last. Previous years, we were in a fierce drought. We could only briefly be outside with temperatures in the triple digits every day during the summer months. The drought, now apparently over, was devastating for several ranchers who had to prematurely sell livestock or import water and feed. The tanks (ponds), as we call them, were nearly dry and many were completely dry, but most have now rebounded. We still need more rain and it will take several years to recover. Like so many here, we lost three large trees, two pecan and one Chinese elm, that had been on our property for at least 50 years.
On a sadder note, I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your mare. Horses are smart, wonderful companions and good sports. However, I am happy to hear of the puppies. We recently acquired a German Shorthair Pointer named Fritz. He is about 2 years old and still is a wild boy. He will cuddle for a short while and then insists on playing more than we can keep up with. Hubby wanted a hunting dog but I doubt Fritz will want to do anything but play with the prey.
Thank you for your lovely posts. I always look forward for your next installment.
What a beautiful grey Arab your girl was! The tree sounds like a beautiful tribute to her memory.
Enjoyed your “weather report”.
The essence of a summer day, cooled by rain is always a welcome respite.
Enjoy these remaining days of summer. Hopefully we will see a post with puppy pictures soon!
Beautiful story! Big thunderstorms in Oklahoma overnight…. But was able to catch a hummingbird this morning at the feeders. Can’t wait to see you in September at Heros at Highcler!
I do not want thunderstorms at Heroes !!! I have a lot more work to do yet but it is spreading its wings!
Hi Ricky! We will be there in September as well! We live in Florida!
Sue Smith
Englewood, Florida
Wonderful and please spread the word!
So sorry to learn of the loss of your Arab mare, my thoughts and sincere condolences go out to you in your time of healing. The new puppies will definitely make you smile but will never take the place of Azzie in your heart.
Your blog is lovely; a brighter spot in my already blessed day. It sustains me til I can visit in person – a top 10 bucket list item. Fun to hear of your son’s subtle rebellion! So sorry you had to part with a friend – although you are clearly better for having known her:)
Reading about your son writing daily about the weather gave me a nice chuckle as I did the same thing when writing letters back to my parents when an Australian exchange student. I am so glad to have seen your beloved horse while visiting your home. Can’t wait to hear about the puppies.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
The loss of your Arab is heartbreaking. I am truly saddened. The pain of the loss never goes away but she will be kept alive in your heart and mind by the endless stories you tell about her and by the pictures you have of her.
I am thrilled to learn of Finse’s pregnancy and that she is about to have a litter. I was visiting my cousin years ago who breeds Bernese Mountain dogs. Half of their house has been given over to the 8 dogs she has kept over the years and the other half they keep for themselves. They are huge animals!
Anyway, when I was there when one of the dogs had just had a litter of 11! About 10:00 I was heading up to bed when I said to my cousin:” What time will you be heading to bed tonight?”as she was started to bottle feed some of the newborns. Her response was 1:00 AM! Well, I could not let her feed them all by herself as she was already exhausted ( her husband raises belted Galloway’s and they had had their calves a few weeks prior to my visit) so I turned around and came down to help her. Even with my help we did not get to bed any earlier than 1:00. It was totally worth it though.
I hope Finse does not keep you waiting too long. I know we will see pictures!
Fondly,
Diana
South Florida
I cannot to be up all night!
Lady Carnavon, you have touched the lives of outdoor lovers, naturalists, poets, and pet lovers with a sweep of your pen. Lovely days of all the seasons have their merits. I am thankful that God has created for us so many interesting and beautiful things for our enjoyment.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
Please allow me to add my thoughts of sorrow on your loss. The picture you’ve posted says she was your horse, but more importantly your friend. Time will heal your pain, but never dull the sweet memories of a great ride with a trusted confidant.
I’m looking forward to pictures of puppies. A short video of happy “grandparents” would be wonderful.
What lovely comments you shared in this writing, quite lyrical and poetic, leaving quietness and calm in your wake! Enjoyed it so much!
I think that the idea of planting a tree in memory of your horse is wonderful. Here in the east of the United States we’re getting lots of rain and thunderstorm. We need the rain but so much rain at once is causing lots of flooding.
I very much enjoyed your post today – thank you! The notes from your son, especially after he realized how vexing they were to his Dad, make me smile! Weather has been a constant worry for so many people these days. In coastal South Carolina where I live, we alternated between drought and flood this spring and summer, with many dramatic thunder and lightning displays to go along with the very hot and humid weather we’ve been getting recently.
My heartfelt condolences to you and any others who cherished your lovely Arab mare. It is truly an honor to have companions like them in our lives, even with the foreknowledge that we will see them leave before us. I recently had the same experience of loss with my beautiful brown-eyed Maggie-dog. Her decline was unexpectedly quick but my sad heart is fortified a little with knowing she is out of the pain she had been dealing with these past months. I light a candle for a little while every day beside a picture of her with a big dog-smile on her face after one of her favorite activities – a walk through the woods on a path that skirts one of the rivers close to where we live.
I am definitely looking forward to news of the new pups that are soon to arrive! I hope Momma has an easy labor and all the pups are healthy and happy. The circle of life indeed keeps rolling along, and us along with it.
All the best to you, your family, and the crew at Higclere.
Natalie
Summerville, SC, USA
Dear Lady Carnarvon
What a beautiful picture of you both-will you make it into a bigger picture and hang it up in your room?
I still have my horse’s piece of mane and touch it now and again and instead of tears (which I always used to do) I try to smile and remember when the little sod tried’ to kill me’ by bolting off in the field with me! and other times when I used to cradle her face in my neck.
Your memories will always be with you and so will all those have passed in spirit be with you too xx
My thoughts are with you in the passing of your beloved mare. How wonderful to have puppies to keep you busy (as if you weren’t enough, as it is!). Sending positive thoughts in that direction too, that Finse has no troubles and all of the puppies are healthy. Thank you for such a beautiful post, and the pictures are such a joy to see! That’s a great capture of the little birds. I hope we can see the puppies too, when they’re ready!
As I read this I am sitting on my back porch in central New York gazing at a slope of English Ivy and Sumac trees sipping sasafras tea with my two beagles lazing on the floor – we are waiting for rain – we smell it coming. I love rain – soothing, calming, refreshing, healing. The vegetable garden and annual flowers are wilting from hot humid air coming up from the south – an invader to our normally cooler and dryer climate. A gift and blessing temporary as it must be. In October the leaves will change color – like fireworks – the grand finale before winter when all turns white, gray, and cold and the earth and creatures within rest until waking in April. I see the same flowers & birds you do – awesome. We nearly lost one of our beagles this week due to illness but he has recovered favorably. Several friends and family face serious illnesses this month. Life is truly much better than loss and thankfully God continually gives us new life to heal our losses. Definitely plant the tree for your mare and for your heart. Love you much.
Did your son become a meteorologist?
Not at all and my husband is equally interested in the weather -the temperature, the impact it is usually orientated to what is likely to go wrong…
Love stretching hands across the pond
I’m sorry for the loss of your Arab mare…Funny story about your son – How many children do you have? Weather is all we ever talk about here also – today there is smoke in the Valley from the wildfires around us – Praying for all affected – we went through it last October. New puppies are a cure for everything that ails us – get some rest! love, Chrissy
It is supposedly just the British who talk about the weather -but there have been such extremes – I hope the courageous firefighters begin to win the battle
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
So sorry to hear of the loss of your dear Arab mare. I’m sure she lived to a good old age but it’s never long enough is it? We’ve lost 3 of our English springer spaniels over the last 45 plus years. While they all lived to good old age for springers, it was always too soon. We have our 4th springer, Darcie, now and I hope she too loves to a good old dog age. Horses and dogs are so faithful to us. They all deserve the very best we can give them I believe.
Sincerely
Dianne Shanley
Naples FL
Lady Carnarvon:
I follow a writer on FB where one reader of her books mentioned how when her blood pressure is high she picks up one of her books and starts reading and in no time at all the activity of reading has such a calming effect on her that her blood pressure lowers. Well, it is the same with reading your posts. They are so beautifully written that it really does have that effect on me.
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your beautiful grey Arab mare. It is wonderful that you are planting a tree in her memory. Will you be getting another?
Blessings on you.
Bev
I have a young dark grey filly and I think when the summer heat passes we might begin to explore together.
Dear Lady Carnavon,
Thanks for your post and your words. I just read it before go to sleep after a working day, so, you put a smile on my face, mostly with your photo and your horse: I see a happy woman and that’s very nice
“We ain’t what we used to was” a phrase I heard uttered with tongue in cheek years ago.. Life forever moves on – THANK GOD! Imagine if it didn’t.
I don’t remember if you ever had corgis. My grandmother’s sister I am told brought the first brace of them over circa 1900. I grew up with Cardigens, the ones with long tails. They used to be able to sit up, but in the intervening years their “wheelbase” has grown so they can’t any more. It was so cute. Our last was named Ruffles; the other was Flourishes (get it?) Little levity. Best, John
Laughter always helps !
Just returned from England last week. Was perfect weather for tourists but could see you desperately needed rain. Loved Highclere. Beautiful gardens.
We have had a little rain but it looks set to return to sun. The gardens have held up even if the colours are less vivid but they are a tribute to the gardeners. I thought I would make some videos this week to share them on line.
Condolences from Whitefish, Montana.
Birth, living, dying, the cycle of life
It is so painful to lose a beloved animal.
We all know this.
Thank you!
I think those of us who cannot do without animal companions are a brave lot. We take that leap and make the commitment, knowing we will have our hearts broken someday. And then we do it again! I am sorry for your loss—and what a beautiful picture of you and your mare! She lived a long life, and was loved, and she
knew it—nothing better to wish for our pets and for ourselves.
You are right – and I will do it again!
The old grey mare just ain’t what she used to be, many long years ago … Lyrics from an old American folk song
My condolences to you on the loss of your beloved horse. As Shakespeare once wrote: A horse! A horse! A Kingdom for a horse! (Richard III) Requiescat in pace to your mare and peace and comfort to you
Lady Carnarvon,
Your story is quite lovely and makes a lot of sense. In a way life always leads you to your next step. By soaking in the pain we continue living. I am sad for your loss. I am happy for the newborns. Animals are our children. I hope the tree you will plant grows lush and bright. And after the rain, comes the sun.☔
I will wait a little to plant the tree – the Autumn will be better, but I might try to choose one soon
What a moving post! I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear mare, Lady Carnarvon. Planting a tree is such a lovely idea.
Your story about discussing the weather made me laugh out loud. In Texas, Houstonians are well known for either complaining about or endlessly analyzing the weather. On a lighter note, one local news show even features a daily “Hair Forecast!”
You have such gift with words – and word pictures! Thanks for this lovely tribute to summer – which is, by the way, near miserable here in the Pacific Northwest of the US at about 100F right now. I think a walk in your rain showers would be heaven! And I’m so sorry about your mare – the loss of a beloved pet is always hard.
Thank you
We always seem to come up with ideas to enhance our memories of lost pets (usually more than loved ones) and I am sure you miss your dear mare. Sad news indeed. The new puppies will keep you busy and help ease your new “normal” without the old, grey Arab lady. Bless all of you and thank you for your heart warming posts.
Brenda Watson
Glenn Heights, Texas
USA
Thank you!
I’m very sorry for your loss of your beloved horse. This entry is melancholy and touching, as the mood of the weather can be. But the arrival of Finse’s puppies will be exciting for you and Karine! Your books on Finse that I purchased on Viking Sea are delightful.
Ada Akimoto
Aiea, Hawaii
USA
So sad to lose a long time equine friend! My sympathy to you. Like you said, it’s so hard to lose our horse and dog companions because we love them so much and they us. I don’t know, though, if we could bear their loss if they lived longer, especially our dogs. They are our constant companions, in and out of our homes, and their lives revolve around ours even more than our horses’ lives do. Last fall we lost three of our old mares, each much loved and grieved over at their loss. I wish they could have passed in their sleep but it was not to be so it was my husband who gave them their very last treats and released them from their pain. They are buried in our far back pasture, where they can rest under the feet of their descendants. Our old dogs rest in our front yard, under a small apple tree I planted for the very first Aussie we lost at the grand old age of 17. She LOVED apples (and cherries) so I thought it fitting to plant the apple tree, although I did toy with the idea of a dogwood. 🙂 I like the fact that you planted a tree with silvery bark to remind you of your Arab. I’m sure you will love spending time under it as it grows.
We also have been dry here in eastern Oklahoma but last weekend we received a much appreciated rain. For three days, off and on, we had nice rain and on the last day it was a downpour! Ponds have come up some, the grass is coming back from dormancy, and we have hopes of a decent cutting of hay to come!
Thank you for sharing your days with us. I know we all appreciate and enjoy reading your entries and learning how much we all have in common, no matter where we live.
Best wishes,
Steph Nelson
PS Hope your puppies have arrived safely and mama dog is doing well, too!
The puppies are here and utter heaven
So good to hear that you are now with the new puppies, it is so wonderful to witness new life coming to us as we experience loss of old friends and companions, of our dear and close animals, too. This blog is a lovely tribute to your dear Arab, and planting a tree will also bring new life to watch as it grows. Hoping that the rains have come and begun to place new “green” life for the grounds of Highclere. We in the north of Greece have had a very wet and cool summer, but the south has hardly had a cloud in the sky. It is dry and hot and the extreme winds added to make the horrible tragedy of the wildfire that swept through a seaside area east of Athens, so sad , so tragic. There, too, trees will be planted and new life and green of nature will once again grow. Thank you for this special blog, your writing came at the right time to lift one’s spirit.
MY DEAR LADY CARNARVON,
CONGRATULATIONS TO PUPPIES AND MAMA DOG.
Talking about the weather can sometimes sounds trite. I have a 75 year old Cousin who is in a nursing home and sends me a a message almost every day which begins something like ” how’s your weather today. It is raining here”. And then it occurs to me that she just needs to talk to someone even if it’s about the weather. I always reply and the additionally ask “how are you doing today’? This leads to even more questions and dialogue. I’m sure your young son Edward was not to sure about how to communicate with his parents on other subjects at that stage in his life. So I say that the subject of ‘weather’ is important in many ways. Love your writings!
It is a good opener- but once he realised it wound up his father he knew he was on to a winner
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
I wanted to leave a note to say a heartfelt thank you. As someone who is interested in history, loves being outside in the countryside and adores animals, I truly enjoy your excellent blogs. You have a wonderful gift of being able to depict feelings experienced in words so brilliantly, which really resonates with the reader – they are an absolute joy to read! I recently acquired your fabulous book ‘At Home at Highclere’ which is absolutely stunning – thank you for so many delicious recipes, and such detailed insights of the weekends and the people involved in the history of the castle, and those who make it the great place it is today.
May I pass on my deepest sympathy on the passing of your Arab mare – it’s a lovely idea to plant a tree in memory of her.
So glad the puppies have arrived – they will no doubt be such fun! I hope all is safe and well!
Thank you once again!
Amy Francis xx
The puppies are a joy – and thank you for your comments about the book. I think food and eating should be a pleasure and a time to gather and so much of the media traffic is about dieting or prescriptive. It is a different book but I think I plough my own furrow
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your sweet grey mare. She was a beauty. I pray the new puppies will lift your spirits,
Sending a hug,
Shelley in Virginia
Thank you!
There is nothing as restful as a harvest all in on a sultry August day where:
IN KENTUCKY . . . .
The birds have to use pot holders to pull worms out of the ground.
The trees are whistling for the dogs.
The best parking place is determined by shade instead of distance.
Hot water now comes out of both taps.
You can make sun tea instantly.
You learn that a seat belt buckle makes a pretty good branding iron!
The temperature drops below 95 and you feel a little chilly.
You discover that in July it only takes 2 fingers to steer your car.
You discover that you can get sunburned through your car window.
You actually burn your hand opening the car door.
You break into a sweat the instant you step outside at 7:30 a.m.
Your biggest bicycle wreck fear is, “What if I get knocked out and end up lying on the pavement and cook to death?”
You realize that asphalt has a liquid state.
The potatoes cook underground, so all you have to do is pull one out and add butter, salt and pepper.
Farmers are feeding their chickens crushed ice to keep them from laying boiled eggs.
The cows are giving evaporated milk.
Ah, what a place to call home !
That is the perfect description of our unexpectedly long, hot summer!
Another refreshing, lovely blog. Thank you.
I am sad about your horse. I have never owned a horse, but my mother has had horses all her life. She understands the bond.
I have had four cats and had a special bond with each one. (Each one lived to be 14 years old.) I know the sorrow of the loss of an animal friend. I have written letters to them recanting all the good memories and some of the funny things they would do. Each cat was unique.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
My Mother, myself and my Godmother are all coming down to Highclere Castle on 8th September, we are so looking forward to it, and know the occasion will be really special.
I have always wanted to come because of Downton Abbey, we have all the dvd’s which we bought while living outside Durban, my Father passed away in 2012 and my Mother and I returned to England in 2016.
I have your really special book Lady Catherine And The Real Downton Abbey, I have read is several times and enjoyed it so much, it has a special place in my bookcase.
The castle is lovely and I am so looking forward to seeing it. I feel I know it well because of Dowton.
I was very sad to read that your beautiful horse has died, I know the loss of beloved animals as my family have had six Scottish Terriers, and the deep loss that is felt when they are no longer with you is profound, but we have such lovely memories of our time with them.
I think we are truly blessed to have had them in out lives with their special natures and ways. We used to bred Scottish Terriers and showed them, with The Short Legged Terrier Club of South Africa at the Dogmoor Dog Of The Year Show in Johannesburg.
I am a horse lover myself, and ride, it is such fun and very enjoyable, and go to many horse shows.
I am so looking forward to the Dowton Abbey film with such pleasure, as well as seeing the actors again.
Best Wishes
From Deborah Angel- Peckham
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
Heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your (you did not mention her name) companion and confidant.
She was lovely and the photograph of the two of you together convey joy, love, bliss.
(I am just now catching up on things- recovering from an oak tree falling on me while tractormowing a pasture–and today received your book At Home at Highclere. You continue to inspire me to be better—you do horse feed too? Is there anything you DON’T do? Wow I look forward to more books on the history of it all.)
Thank you. Yes, our 3,000 acre farm produces top quality oats for horse (and human!) consumption.
Dearest lady Carnarvon,
How sad I am to read of the loss of your mare. She looked absolutely stunning. I would love to have the full photograph of her with you in that picture. I am an artist and I run a rescue for Arabian horses, where they become therapy horses for equine psychotherapy and equine communication. I know how deeply these horses can become a part of your life. I am glad that you were able to find peace with the birth of your puppies.
Thank you